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<channel><title><![CDATA[Joe Grabowski - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2025 01:41:32 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[On canonizations and making new friends]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-canonizations-and-making-new-friends]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-canonizations-and-making-new-friends#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2025 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Musings]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-canonizations-and-making-new-friends</guid><description><![CDATA[..There comes a time in a fellow's life &mdash; or, well, at any rate, there has come such a time in my life, and I'm a fellow &mdash; when the prospect of making new friends becomes rather a bother. I don't mean the effort, or trying to be friendly; I mean the actual achievement, the success of the endeavor. I'm sure for some, the former struggle is more felt, and maybe has always been that way. But I've always had a bit of an extroverted disposition and happily fall into easy acquaintance with [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">..There comes a time in a fellow's life &mdash; or, well, at any rate, there has come such a time in my life, and I'm a fellow &mdash; when the prospect of making new friends becomes rather a bother. I don't mean the effort, or trying to be friendly; I mean the actual achievement, the success of the endeavor. I'm sure for some, the former struggle is more felt, and maybe has always been that way. But I've always had a bit of an extroverted disposition and happily fall into easy acquaintance with a stranger at the pub or in a queue at the post office or the like. The thing for me is about actual friendship, having new friends. One has to find room to fit them in. . .</span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)"></span></span><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">I'm not trying to say my social calendar is so buzzing that there's a wait list or anything of that sort. It's just that, by this time of my life, I have my friends and I'm content, and even finding time for them is quite enough to be getting on with. Everybody's busy and all that. I hope I still manage to show the Christian disposition of&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">friendliness</span></em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">&nbsp;to any &ldquo;neighbor&rdquo; I meet along the way, regardless, but that's again not what I'm talking about here. I'm talking about fast and dedicated friendship, with all its entailments of obligation and interest.</span><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)"><br /><br />&#8203;Anyway, it's on my mind today as I sit sipping my morning coffee and reading about the Anglo-Saxons, because, well, I find as I reflect that, if I may be so bold with a paraphrase that I hope won't be found irreverent, &ldquo;</span><em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">sicut in terra et in caelo</span></em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">.&rdquo; I'm studying Alfred the Great recently, and I find that he, too, has indeed become a friend, joining a list of dead friends that dwarfs the list of living ones I've got. And that got me thinking of tomorrow's dual canonizations of Carlo Acutis and Pier Giorgio Frassati.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">I don't know much about these guys. But, what with Holy Mother Church &ldquo;raising them to the altars&rdquo; and extolling them as worthy of devotion and imitation, combined with the large popularity both enjoy &mdash; such even that among their admirers there's a bit of holy rivalry and even a little (hopefully not very serious) chagrin for some in having to share the canonization ceremony &mdash; I've been feeling a sort of pressure to get to know them more. It's like nothing so much as that feeling one sometimes has at a party where a friend urges you toward a new acquaintance: &ldquo;You've got to meet this dude, you'll like him. He's your kind of people.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">I hope so. I'll be happy in my Christian vocation if it may be truly said of me some day that such as they were &ldquo;my kind of people.&rdquo; Nevertheless, I also feel that very natural and normal sense of social fatigue, just like I would at a party. I hope it is not a species of pusillanimity in me that I sort of just think, &ldquo;But I just don't <em>need </em>any more friends right now.&rdquo; Like every Catholic, I already have my roster of ready friends with whom I need to remind myself (when God doesn't more forcibly remind me) that I would do well to check in. Augustine, Aquinas, one or the other Francis (Assisi and Xavier), Catherine of Sienna, Joan of Arc, Theresa (all three, big, little, and late), and of course my beloved Chesterton &mdash; these and more; enough, as I said above, to be getting on with. I just find it difficult to break away from the conversation and cross the room to get acquainted with a new set, no matter how rewarding it might prove to be.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">There was a time when one of the most devastating critiques one could level in internecine Catholic discourse was that someone was a &ldquo;Cafeteria Catholic.&rdquo; The metaphor has somewhat fallen out of vogue, and I am on the whole happy for it. Not that I don't appreciate that there was a valid point being made, but rather I think because the metaphor doesn't really hit the mark. Of course, the usage arose in the 70s or 80s, and back then the phenomenon of veganism wasn't widespread enough to have cultural cache, and so I can't really fault people for working with what they had. Still, I think &ldquo;vegan Catholic&rdquo; a better metaphor, because it isn't so much about picking and choosing, it's about being restrictive and demanding, and being a bit smarmy and annoying while doing it. (Half-hearted apologies to any vegans in my audience. But steak is simply good, there's no two ways about it.) Whereas, on the other hand, a cafeteria, or a buffet, really is a good metaphor for what the Church really&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">is</span><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">, much more than for a wrong way of approaching Her. I'd actually call it &ldquo;Smorgasbord Catholicism.&rdquo; Within this metaphor, the real faux pas would be smuggling in food from outside and eating it at the table, rather than selecting from the panoply on offer. That would be a violation of house rules, not to mention basic good manners. So, yes, some things are prescribed, and some proscribed. But I don't like the negative cafeteria analogy because it isn't a prix fixe menu. It's a true smorgasbord, plentiful and varied. You&nbsp;</span><em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">can</span></em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">, if you want, wear&nbsp;</span><em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">ALL</span></em><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)"><em>&nbsp;</em>the scapulars. But you needn&rsquo;t be wearing a whole clothier&rsquo;s stock of sample swatches around your neck to enter in through the narrow gate. If a devotion or particular sacramental doesn't &ldquo;click&rdquo; with you, you have plenty else to choose from. Don't harangue others about their choices; neither feel pressured to adopt what others deem optimal. For me, baby dolls that look like a miniature Phil Collins dressed like Liberace don't inspire holy sentiments, they just creep me out.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)"><em>De gustibus non est disputandum.</em></span></span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)"><span style="color:rgb(8, 8, 9)">Maybe a season will come when I find myself inspired to become more acquainted with Carlo and Pier Giorgio. I hope, in any event, God willing I will get to know them better hereafter, and have all of eternity to do it. For now, I am simply grateful to Mother Church for adding even more to what is already a superabundant bountiful feast. Maybe, in God's Providence, either or both of these gentlemen will see fit to introduce themselves to me, and make up for my own reticence. In the meantime, I'll be returning to my second and third helpings of the same comforting fare, and I pray neither He nor they will find fault with that.</span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[On the Semiquincentenniel(s)]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-the-semiquincentenniels]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-the-semiquincentenniels#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Chesterton]]></category><category><![CDATA[Gilbert Magazine]]></category><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-the-semiquincentenniels</guid><description><![CDATA[In my editorial for the July/August 2025 issue of Gilbert magazine:  Next year, the United States will celebrate its Semiquincentennial, or 250th anniversary. Per Wikipedia, other names under which this occasion is being heralded include &ldquo;Bisesquicentennial,&rdquo; &ldquo;Sestercentennial,&rdquo; &ldquo;Quarter Millennium,&rdquo; and&mdash;inspired, no doubt, by the advertising and marketing fads of late capitalism&mdash;the banal &ldquo;America250,&rdquo; which sounds more like a software [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">In my editorial for the July/August 2025 issue of <a href="https://www.chesterton.org/gilbert/" target="_blank"><em>Gilbert </em>magazine</a>:</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">Next year, the United States will celebrate its Semiquincentennial, or 250th anniversary. Per Wikipedia, other names under which this occasion is being heralded include &ldquo;Bisesquicentennial,&rdquo; &ldquo;Sestercentennial,&rdquo; &ldquo;Quarter Millennium,&rdquo; and&mdash;inspired, no doubt, by the advertising and marketing fads of late capitalism&mdash;the banal &ldquo;America250,&rdquo; which sounds more like a software suite than a memorial.</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><a href="https://www.chesterton.org/on-the-semiquincentennials/" target="_blank">Read the whole thing here.<br /><br /></a>And if you like it, consider <a href="https://www.chesterton.org/membership/" target="_blank">subscribing today</a>!<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The hill to die on...]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-hill-to-die-on]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-hill-to-die-on#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2025 10:36:39 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-hill-to-die-on</guid><description><![CDATA[In February, a rather ominous anniversary was marked, with pictures of &ldquo;the dress&rdquo; going viral on social media. Now, for those of us who were of the age of reason by the time of the Clinton Presidency, the term &ldquo;the dress&rdquo; needs, as they say on Wikipedia, &ldquo;disambiguation.&rdquo; So: no, not that dress. Folks born in the mid- to late-&rsquo;90s, rather, might immediately have reckoned which dress I meant. At least, it seems the prime candidate of that noun&rsquo;s in [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">In February, a rather ominous anniversary was marked, with pictures of &ldquo;the dress&rdquo; going viral on social media. Now, for those of us who were of the age of reason by the time of the Clinton Presidency, the term &ldquo;the dress&rdquo; needs, as they say on Wikipedia, &ldquo;disambiguation.&rdquo; So: no, not </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">that </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">dress. Folks born in the mid- to late-&rsquo;90s, rather, might immediately have reckoned which dress I meant. At least, it seems the prime candidate of that noun&rsquo;s instantiation alongside the definite article for those of later generations. I mean, of course, the (in)famous white and gold dress (or was it blue and black?) that became a viral meme first back in February 2015. Yes, last month was its decennial anniversary. Feeling old? But did I call it an ominous anniversary? Yes. Read on.<br />&#8203;</span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">As so-and-so famously said (but Mark Twain did&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">not</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;say), history may not repeat itself, but it often &ldquo;rhymes.&rdquo; A couple short weeks after the viral ambiguous dress had its second big moment on social media, another less innocent viral image made the rounds, this time a very brief video appearing to show a young lady at an indoor track competition lashing out and clubbing her opponent with her baton after being overtaken in a race.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">One of the two athletes involved in the incident, the victim, is a minor. The other individual, the alleged assailant, is 18. Both have been named in reports of the event. I'm choosing, however, to name neither, because they're both in high school, after all, and anyway it is beside my point.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">That the action was deliberate has been the apparent consensus of most who watched the short clip. This was also the view of the officials at the track event itself, who disqualified the older girl. And it is apparently also the view of the local Commonwealth Attorney, what the State (Commonwealth) of Virginia apparently calls District Attorneys, who is allowing charges for assault and battery in the case.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The accused runner has come forward to defend herself publicly, along with her family, offering a different video angle of the incident. She presents a different narrative. When the other runner overtook her, she says, she did so too closely. This led to incidental contact which resulted in her losing balance. Flailing her arms as she attempted to stay on her feet, it is thus that the baton accidentally made contact with the other girl's head, who suffered a concussion as a result.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Not, perhaps, insignificantly, at least some media outlets covering the matter after this account and other videos were made public began to phrase things rather differently than in earlier reporting. One&nbsp;</span><a href="https://abcnews.go.com/news/story/high-school-runner-hit-opponent-head-baton-mid/?id=119663131"><span style="color:rgb(17, 85, 204)">article</span></a><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;describes the initial &ldquo;now-viral video show[ing] one track star hitting her competitor in the head with a baton.&rdquo; Yet, in the next paragraph, it references the moment &ldquo;when her baton struck [the younger girl],&rdquo; and later even calls the alleged assailant &ldquo;the runner whose baton hit [the other] on the head.&rdquo;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Meanwhile, the court of public opinion is litigating the matter in real-time&mdash;with all the characteristic nuance, circumspection, and lack of bias we have come to expect on social media and in news site comboxes. The older girl has received death threats and been subject to slurs attacking her race and her sex. Her counter-narrative also seems to have attracted its own partisans, though, who are defending her, convinced by her story and by the alternate video footage. These include the local NAACP, who in a statement said she is &ldquo;not an attacker&rdquo; and that the charges filed against her are &ldquo;not warranted.&rdquo; Other commentators suggest that her race is part of the impetus behind the charges. The race angle might be more prominent in the discourse but for two other factors: namely that the victim appears to be of the same race; and that the incident occurred during a &ldquo;race,&rdquo; which has maybe prevented this aspect from gaining traction in the search algorithms, that word being another instance of the need sometimes for &ldquo;disambiguation.&rdquo;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">I have my own views on which account most probably fits the facts. It will be observed, however, that I've assiduously avoided making them clear. This is mainly because I really don't see why anybody should care what I think; and because I certainly don't care. Which brings me to my point in talking about the incident at all.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Running a race well requires training and conditioning. St. Paul thus takes this as an apt metaphor for the Christian life. That, and the fact that many of us lack the discipline to train, and need reminding. Lent is perhaps the best time to heed that reminder.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">History does indeed rhyme. As another sage (again, not Mark Twain) observed, those who do not learn from history are bound to repeat it. We have&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">not&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">learned. Ten years ago, a picture of a dress whipped us into a frenzy and provoked heated arguments over its true colors. Almost two decades prior, another scandalous matter, wherein a dress was involved, was also litigated largely in the media and in the public square before any proper investigation, and provoked the now legendary evasion that, when considering certain questions, &ldquo;It depends on what the meaning of the word 'is' is.&rdquo; The writing was on the wall even back then: we were headed down the rabbit hole into a nonsensical world, an age that later would come to be described as the &ldquo;post-truth&rdquo; era. Little wonder, in such an epoch, that so many people seem to gravitate to those who will just call things as they see them, even if it is brash, uncouth, or actually untrue! Refreshing honesty in a point of view expressed has come to satisfy that desperation born of an apparent lack of certainty, and perhaps even mechanisms for finding certainty, about what &lsquo;is&rdquo; is. Nietzsche grins in his grave.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It seems to me that running the race well in such a time requires particular training in the Christian virtues of prudence, patience, and humility. The presumption of innocence while a matter is duly adjudicated in the proper arena seems more important than ever. Yet the tendency of the age is all in the opposite direction. Prejudice trumps prudence at every turn in the track. Again, little wonder. There's something ominous, giving rise in the sensitive soul to real existential and epistemological angst, when two different people, looking at the very same image, can without mendacity each state that he sees two completely different things. It may be a dress photographed in poor lighting. But it may also be filmed of an alleged assault, or a war in some part of the world, or a particular politician's conduct. We really do find ourselves in a time when the question, &ldquo;Who are you going to believe, me or your own eyes?&rdquo; is no mere impertinence. The passive voice evades attribution of agency. Facts increasingly need &ldquo;disambiguation.&rdquo; We no longer trust institutions to which proper adjudication once would have been deferred. In such a crisis, stubbornness and quick judgment are a constant temptation. Every day the ground is planted more thickly with flags staking out immovable positions. Tet the landscape has not really changed, and few, if any, of these flags really mark hills anybody should be willing to die on.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This Lent, my mind is drawn to a particular instance in the trial of Our Lord, where He supplied a question for an answer: &ldquo;I have spoken openly to the world: I have always taught in the synagogue, and in the temple&hellip;, in secret I have spoken nothing. Why askest thou me? ask them who have heard what I have spoken unto them: behold they know what things I have said.&rdquo; For this seeming impertinence, He received the first of many blows to follow. In subsequent hours, those who&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">had&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">heard Him teach and seen His wondrous deeds were essentially challenged with a form of our own dilemma by their religious leaders: &ldquo;Who will you believe, us? or your own eyes and ears?&rdquo; They would ultimately cry out in answer, &ldquo;Crucify Him.&rdquo;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Not every question demands our swift and decisive judgment. Someone else seeing something very differently than we, however plain it may seem to us, may be as genuinely and honestly convinced; and the truly virtuous thing may be to extend grace and forbearance and a stay in judgment. Rather than staring anew at the object in bafflement, we should look instead to that even more confounding object, our own heart, seeking there the wisdom of how best to proceed. If our hearts are formed by the Spirit of Christ, rather than the spirit of the age, we should find a call to meekness, to humility, perhaps even to silence in the face of an accuser. We should find the way marked by the only One of us whose judgment was truly perfect, though He was falsely judged: the way to the right hill on which to die.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[What does "Chestertonian" mean?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/what-does-chestertonian-mean]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/what-does-chestertonian-mean#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2025 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Chesterton]]></category><category><![CDATA[Gilbert Magazine]]></category><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/what-does-chestertonian-mean</guid><description><![CDATA[My editorial for the March/April 2025 issue of Gilbert magazine:  To be Chestertonian means a particular&nbsp;mode&nbsp;of being Christian. Of course, to some Christians this very idea is offensive, even blasphemous. Chesterton himself, however, was not such a one. He believed in the witness and example of the Saints &ndash; that there was no contradiction between emulating them and following Christ. As he wrote of the great Saint whom he chose for his Confirmation patron, &ldquo;St. Francis is  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">My editorial for the March/April 2025 issue of <a href="https://www.chesterton.org/chestertonian-noun/" target="_blank"><em>Gilbert </em>magazine</a>:</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">To be Chestertonian means a particular&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">mode&nbsp;</em><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">of being Christian. Of course, to some Christians this very idea is offensive, even blasphemous. Chesterton himself, however, was not such a one. He believed in the witness and example of the Saints &ndash; that there was no contradiction between emulating them and following Christ. As he wrote of the great Saint whom he chose for his Confirmation patron, &ldquo;St. Francis is the mirror of Christ rather as the moon is the mirror of the sun. The moon is much smaller than the sun, but it is also much nearer to us; and being less vivid it is more visible.&rdquo; In this, he was merely recapitulating the logic employed by Saint Paul: &ldquo;Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.&rdquo;</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><a href="https://www.chesterton.org/chestertonian-noun/" target="_blank">Read the rest.</a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My thoughts on "Justin"]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/my-thoughts-on-justin]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/my-thoughts-on-justin#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Catholic World Report]]></category><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/my-thoughts-on-justin</guid><description><![CDATA[I decided to share my thoughts on that Catholic Answers AI kerfuffle. You can read it over at Catholic World Report.&nbsp;Here is a sample:  There is nothing new about emergent technologies and strategies being tested in evangelization. Stained glass, question-and-answer catechisms, casuistic manuals, vademecums, and so many other examples may be cited. In all of these cases, the integration of new means and methods was achieved by striking the right balance amidst possible tensions. A stained g [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">I decided to share my thoughts on that Catholic Answers AI kerfuffle. You can read it over at <em><a href="https://www.catholicworldreport.com/2024/05/03/we-need-some-real-perspective-on-ai-and-evangelization/" target="_blank">Catholic World Report</a>.&nbsp;</em><br /><br />Here is a sample:</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">There is nothing new about emergent technologies and strategies being tested in evangelization. Stained glass, question-and-answer catechisms, casuistic manuals, vademecums, and so many other examples may be cited. In all of these cases, the integration of new means and methods was achieved by striking the right balance amidst possible tensions. A stained glass window could only capture the basics of the story of the Annunciation; it couldn&rsquo;t replace the actual reading of the narrative from Luke. The pat answer in the printed manual possibly lacked in some points the leavening of wisdom possessed by the priest sitting in the box.</span></blockquote>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[On Fiducia supplicans... (sort of)]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-fiducia-supplicans-sort-of]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-fiducia-supplicans-sort-of#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2024 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Chesterton]]></category><category><![CDATA[Gilbert Magazine]]></category><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-fiducia-supplicans-sort-of</guid><description><![CDATA[I wrote the editorial for the most recent issue of&nbsp;Gilbert&nbsp;magazine, and looked at the dustup over&nbsp;Fiducia supplicans&nbsp;and a lesson from Chesterton that should help us not to lose our peace over it...  We needn&rsquo;t always be comfortable in our perilous perch in the giddy chariot that is the Church. From time to time, we may be bewildered, experience whiplash or worse jolts, when those at the reins seem to take a turn too fast or fail in avoiding a pothole. The charism of i [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">I wrote the editorial for the most recent issue of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.chesterton.org/the-heavenly-chariot-rides-on/" target="_blank"><em>Gilbert&nbsp;</em>magazine,</a> and looked at the dustup over&nbsp;<em>Fiducia supplicans&nbsp;</em>and a lesson from Chesterton that should help us not to lose our peace over it...</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">We needn&rsquo;t always be comfortable in our perilous perch in the giddy chariot that is the Church. From time to time, we may be bewildered, experience whiplash or worse jolts, when those at the reins seem to take a turn too fast or fail in avoiding a pothole. The charism of infallibility pertains to the chariot, in the end, not to the driver: we are assured that the wheels won&rsquo;t come off, that the Thing will never turn over into a ditch. We are not assured of a smooth ride.</span><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><a href="https://www.chesterton.org/the-heavenly-chariot-rides-on/" target="_blank">Read the whole thing.</a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[An Argument That Proves WAY Too Much]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/an-argument-that-proves-way-too-much]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/an-argument-that-proves-way-too-much#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2023 14:02:42 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/an-argument-that-proves-way-too-much</guid><description><![CDATA[Cardinal McElroy has responded to his critics and, inadvertently, proved not only that their criticisms are valid, but much more besides. It isn't that his argument does too little, it's that it does too much - far, far too much....      Why Stop There? Or Anywhere?  His Eminence writes:  For every member of the church, it is conscience to which we have the ultimate responsibility and by which we will be judged. For that reason, while Catholic teaching has an essential role in moral decision-mak [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Cardinal McElroy has <strong><a href="https://www.americamagazine.org/faith/2023/03/02/mcelroy-eucharist-sin-inclusion-response-244827" target="_blank">responded to his critics</a></strong> and, inadvertently, proved not only that their criticisms are valid, but much more besides. It isn't that his argument does too little, it's that it does too much - far, far too much....</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Why Stop There? Or Anywhere?</h2>  <div class="paragraph">His Eminence writes:</div>  <blockquote><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">For every member of the church, it is conscience to which we have the ultimate responsibility and by which we will be judged. For that reason, while Catholic teaching has an essential role in moral decision-making, it is conscience that has the privileged place. As Pope Francis has stated, the church&rsquo;s role is to form consciences, not replace them. Categorical exclusions of the divorced and remarried and L.G.B.T. persons from the Eucharist do not give due respect to the inner conversations of conscience that people have with their God in discerning moral choice in complex circumstances.</span></span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The question here is, why does this apply only to exclusion of such persons and only to the exclusion from Communion?<br /><br />How does this argument not extend, say, to the exclusion of bigamists from marriage?<br /><br />Or the exclusion of a trans-man (a woman identifying as a man) from Holy Orders?<br /><br />Or of a non-Trinitarian theist, or of a polytheist, from Baptism?&nbsp;<br /><br />The problem with "due respect to the inner conversations of conscience" is that that conversation precedes every abominable act the human heart and mind can conceive. Surely we must be able to draw a line&nbsp;<em>somewhere</em>&#8203;?</span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">An Incomprehensible Take on "Comprehensive Classifications"</h2>  <div class="paragraph">Cardinal McElroy goes on...</div>  <blockquote><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">In principle, all sexual sins are objective mortal sins within the Catholic moral tradition. This means that all sins that violate the sixth and the ninth commandments are categorically objective mortal sins. There is no such comprehensive classification of mortal sin for any of the other commandments.</span></span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This is honestly just embarrassing.<br /><br />For three paragraphs, he engages in question-begging argumentation using vague phrases like "all sexual sins." To claim the Church has no nuance in this area is absolutely false. A lustful thought, deliberate entertained&mdash;a sin of covetousness&mdash;is not on the level with conducting an actual extramarital affair, and I'm not aware of anyone who says otherwise.<br /><br />As to there being "no such comprehensive classification of mortal sins for any of the other commandments," I am fairly certain that the Church has consistently held that the worshiping of idols, for example, is always wrong. I don't think the Church would tolerate someone going home from Mass and burning some incense to Baphomet&mdash;regardless of his or her "complex circumstances" or his or her determination in conscience that it's best to hedge one's bets when it comes to appeasing the gods.</span></span><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Where This Path Leads</h2>  <div class="paragraph">McElroy next turns to revealing, more startingly than any of his critics have, the disastrous end to which his path or reasoning leads.</div>  <blockquote><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It is automatically an objective mortal sin for a husband and wife to engage in a single act of sexual intercourse utilizing artificial contraception. This means the level of evil present in such an act is objectively sufficient to sever one&rsquo;s relationship with God.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It is not automatically an objective mortal sin to physically or psychologically abuse your spouse.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It is not automatically an objective mortal sin to exploit your employees.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It is not automatically an objective mortal sin to discriminate against a person because of her gender or ethnicity or religion.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It is not automatically an objective mortal sin to abandon your children.</span></span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Hoo boy. Where to begin?&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">First of all, is His Eminence genuinely unaware of the categories of sufficient knowledge and full free consent of the will alongside grave matter in determining sin? If a party to the marital act is unaware, for example, that his partner has used chemical contraception, then he isn't culpable of engaging in a contraceptive act, even though on an objective level that is what has occurred.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Leaving that side, far more striking here are the sequels. This is where the Cardinal does all his opponents' work for them, in illustrating how disastrous his moral theology is in its logical conclusions.<br /><br />It is only just and fair to credit his consistency here. For one reasoning as he apparently does, I suppose it&nbsp;<em>is</em> impossible to condemn wife beating, wage defraudment, racism, or the abandonment of one's children in any objective way. After all, those folks, too, might have all manner of "complex circumstances" making it, I guess, really understandable why they might slap their wives around from time to time. And maybe they are fully convinced in conscience that it's good and wholesome to do so. We certainly wouldn't want to bar them from Communion for such deeds, would we?! After all, it is to their consciences that they are ultimately answerable, not to some outside standard imposed by the Church as to the objective evil of wife beating.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Of course, a pastor better formed in his intellect, receiving a client in the confessional before Mass who says he routinely beats his wife and isn't sorry for it, and that will probably give her a couple good smacks on the way home from Church for good measure, will send him sternly away without absolution, and also with a remonstrance to keep his ass in the pew at Communion time until he sees his way&mdash;in conscience&mdash;to repenting of his sins.&nbsp;</span></span>&#8203;</div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Powerful Medicine, Indeed &mdash; But No Panacea&nbsp;</h2>  <div class="paragraph">Finally, the Cardinal concludes by giving a beautiful articulation of the need to repent from one's sins... and then rendering it meaningless:</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The call to holiness requires both a conceptual and an intuitive approach leading to an understanding of what discipleship in Jesus Christ means. Discipleship means striving to deepen our faith and our relationship to God, to enflesh the beatitudes, to build up the kingdom in God&rsquo;s grace, to be the good Samaritan. The call to holiness is all encompassing in our lives, embracing our efforts to come closer to God, our sexual lives, our familial lives and our societal lives. It also entails recognizing sin where it lurks in our lives and seeking to root it out. And it means recognizing that each of us in our lives commits profound sins of omission or commission. At such moments we should seek the grace of the sacrament of penance. But such failures should not be the basis for categorical ongoing exclusion from the Eucharist.</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This is genuinely fine... <em>right up to the last sentence</em>. <br /><br />Yes; that last sentence, there lies the rub. <br /><br />If Cardinal McElroy were honest with himself, he could be more honest with his readers. If he consulted his own conscience, he might see what has gone on here. What he <em>really</em> objects to likely isn&rsquo;t the drawing of a line anywhere, but the drawing of a particular line particularly where the Church has drawn it. But in his efforts to justify his objection, he&rsquo;s found himself without adequate resources from the Tradition to do so&mdash;and so he does end, in fact, rejecting the drawing of any lines anywhere. <br /><br />What about the &ldquo;categorical ongoing exclusion&rdquo; of the one who, in the words of Saint Paul, &ldquo;eats and drinks unworthily, without discerning the Body of the Lord,&rdquo; who thereby &ldquo;eats and drinks judgment upon himself?" Surely, a persistent and unrepentant heretic who openly rejects the doctrine of the Eucharist&mdash;surely such a one ought not to partake in the Eucharist? <br /><br />Here, truly, is the final tragedy of the Cardinal&rsquo;s flawed moral and pastoral approach: he thinks it is <em>better</em>, apparently, and more &ldquo;pastoral,&rdquo; for the Church not only to <em>allow</em>&nbsp;one to &ldquo;eat and drink judgment upon himself,&rdquo; but to celebrate and applaud him for it, and to &ldquo;accompany&rdquo; him&mdash;even if it be straight to hell.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">No. No, thank you. I will stick with the Tradition. The clear and consistent Tradition, that is, not (where the idea entered into his mind, I cannot tell) some innovation of the 17th century. <br /><br />The Eucharist is indeed &ldquo;not a prize for the perfect, but a powerful medicine and nourishment for the weak.&rdquo; I, who am weak, can attest to this very ardently myself. But such strong medicine needs to be taken according to the prescription; one must read the warning label. And here is where we may extend the metaphor. This powerful medicine is part of a treatment regimen, and needs to be taken in such a context. The Truth, the Gospel, is also a curative. As Our Lord himself told us, &ldquo;you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.&rdquo; <br /><br />The Truth sets us free to approach the Lord&rsquo;s table, discerning the Body of the Lord, knowing first our own sinfulness and having repented from it. <br /><br />Then, and only then, can the medicine do what it is meant to do.&nbsp;</span></span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[On Catholics and the jab]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-catholics-and-the-jab]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-catholics-and-the-jab#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2022 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><category><![CDATA[The Catholic Herald]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/on-catholics-and-the-jab</guid><description><![CDATA[Published today at&nbsp;The Catholic Herald.  Recently, a very well regarded prelate of the Church &mdash; whom I happen really to believe to be a very good and holy man &mdash; tweeted about the Moderna coronavirus vaccine. He wrote that vaccine &ldquo;is not morally produced,&rdquo; owing to the use in some phases of its production of biological specimens obtained originally through abortion. He &ldquo;urge[s] all who believe in the sanctity of life to reject&rdquo; this or any vaccine produce [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Published today at&nbsp;<em><a href="https://thecatholicherald.com/catholics-can-take-the-vaccine-but-not-happily/" target="_blank">The Catholic Herald</a>.</em></div>  <blockquote>Recently, a very well regarded prelate of the Church &mdash; whom I happen really to believe to be a very good and holy man &mdash; tweeted about the Moderna coronavirus vaccine. He wrote that vaccine &ldquo;is not morally produced,&rdquo; owing to the use in some phases of its production of biological specimens obtained originally through abortion. He &ldquo;urge[s] all who believe in the sanctity of life to reject&rdquo; this or any vaccine produced using such technologies.<br />...<br />[E]xperts indicate...&nbsp;that this is a more complex subject than the good bishop&rsquo;s tweet would suggest.<br /><span></span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph">Check out <a href="https://thecatholicherald.com/catholics-can-take-the-vaccine-but-not-happily/" target="_blank">the whole article</a>.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Giorgia Meloni quotes GKC]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/giorgia-meloni-quotes-gkc]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/giorgia-meloni-quotes-gkc#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2022 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Chesterton]]></category><category><![CDATA[Gilbert Magazine]]></category><category><![CDATA[Published Articles]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/giorgia-meloni-quotes-gkc</guid><description><![CDATA[In the editorial of the latest issue of Gilbert magazine, I cover the presumption Italian Prime Minister's quoting of Chesterton:  The impetus behind the viral clip of Meloni&rsquo;s speech, in the end, wasn&rsquo;t Meloni herself, however impressive people may find her. What inspired the crowd that day, and what inspired the social media frenzy over her rousing remarks, was the content of the message. And the most remarkable thing about that is how unremarkable it really is.&nbsp;&#8203;  Read  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">In the editorial of the latest issue of <a href="https://www.chesterton.org/chesterton-gets-standing-ovation/" target="_blank"><em>Gilbert </em>magazine</a>, I cover the presumption Italian Prime Minister's quoting of Chesterton:</div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(58, 58, 58)">The impetus behind the viral clip of Meloni&rsquo;s speech, in the end, wasn&rsquo;t Meloni herself, however impressive people may find her. What inspired the crowd that day, and what inspired the social media frenzy over her rousing remarks, was the content of the message. And the most remarkable thing about that is how unremarkable it really is.&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><a href="https://www.chesterton.org/chesterton-gets-standing-ovation/" target="_blank">Read the whole thing here.</a>&nbsp;And after you do that, <strong><a href="https://www.chesterton.org/membership/" target="_blank">subscribe</a></strong>!</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Inequality of the Sexes]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-inequality-of-the-sexes]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-inequality-of-the-sexes#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2022 12:41:55 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-inequality-of-the-sexes</guid><description><![CDATA[I heard a guy on a radio call-in show pose this question:&nbsp;  "Now that we are allowing the government to control people's bodies" (stick a pin here, I'll come back to it) "will we now allow the government to force males to undergo vasectomy, which is reversible, until they commit to a woman and agree to have children with her?"  Now, I'll get to the question in a moment, but let's quickly take a closer look at that premise.      Commonly, when this sort of language is used, pro-lifers will r [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">I heard a guy on a radio call-in show pose this question:&nbsp;</span></span><br /></div>  <blockquote><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">"Now that we are allowing the government to control people's bodies" (stick a pin here, I'll come back to it) "will we now allow the government to force males to undergo vasectomy, which is reversible, until they commit to a woman and agree to have children with her?"</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Now, I'll get to the question in a moment, but let's quickly take a closer look at that premise.</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Commonly, when this sort of language is used, pro-lifers will respond that, "It's not your/her/the woman's body." Well, see, the thing is, it is. Or, rather, if I can be permitted use of a double negative (and I don't dislike a judicious use of the double negative), it isn't&nbsp;<strong>NOT&nbsp;</strong>her body. It's just not&nbsp;<strong><em>only</em></strong>&nbsp;her body. Her body is the one undergoing pregnancy. Her body will be the one that undergoes delivery. But her body will not be the only one that undergoes abortion, or even the one that primarily undergoes it. In that case, the body she's carrying in her womb will be the one primarily at issue. The pro-life position is that you cannot inflict direct and deliberate violence on that other body as a means to the end of treating the woman's body. This is distinguished from, say, the removal of an ectopic pregnancy, where the treatment is primarily directed toward a part of the woman's body that has become diseased, as a result of which procedure, the embryonic body suffers death. But the main point is, we shouldn't be so determined to dismiss the glaringly obvious point that a woman's body is changed by pregnancy. We can call attention to the question of her child's body without denying this other fact, because doing so makes us seem either mendacious, stupid, or callous&mdash;or all three at once.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Proceeding from there, then, we can attack the question posed. And here the first thing to point out is that the question fails in analogy. The analogy to forcing a man to get a vasectomy would be forcing a woman to get an abortion, or a hysterectomy. And to that, yes, we would indeed be opposed. To that, we&nbsp;<em><strong>are</strong></em>&nbsp;opposed. But rather, the analogous situation to&nbsp;<em>not permitting</em>&nbsp;a woman to get an abortion would be&nbsp;<em>not allowing</em>&nbsp;a man to escape his paternal responsibilities. Again, here, we find that most of us do not oppose this sort of thing, and in fact we have laws that enforce this, through the awarding of child support and so forth.&nbsp;<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It may be objected that forcing a man to pay child support doesn't infringe upon his bodily autonomy. But this isn't strictly true, either. The man may be a manual laborer. He may work a desk job. In any case, he will be compelled to work in one way or another, in order to pay the ordered support, and at least as long as the Metaverse is not yet fully functioning, he will therefore at least to some extend be required to use his body in a compulsory manner. If he fails in paying, the authorities may seize him bodily and throw him bodily in jail.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Now, I only point out that, if we are making analogies, the thrust of the analogies needs to align as it does above. I don't make a hard claim that the two situations are really very similar. This leads to a final observation, about which I imagine I could say more, and so might write more later sometime. For now, I'll only briefly touch upon the issue. That issue is equality and fairness.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If we reach for a metaphor to use to attempt to show how there is a similar burden for men as what pregnancy and childbirth are for women&hellip; well, then we reach in vain. And this is because the sexes really are not equal in this regard. This may be a shocking thing for modern ears to hear, but it is nonetheless a fact. The reproductive burden simply is not distributed equally among the sexes in the human species, or any other mammalian species. This is true in terms both of opportunity and, if you will, cost.&nbsp;<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The difference begins, well, right at the beginning, in the matter of gametes. Whether or not it is true that the female is born with all of the oocytes she'll ever have (recent science has questioned this long-held assertion) it is in any case certainly true that the availability of female reproductive germ cells is vastly disparate compared with the male's supply, regularly produced through spermatogenesis. Note, too, that I say the difference is in&nbsp;<em>availability</em>, because it isn't just a question of a difference in "stock" as it were. As we've come to know painfully over the past two years, the question of supply has to do with more than just production. Thus, timing is important too. Female fertility follows a reproductive cycle, more or less regular, in contrast to male potential which is, under normal circumstances, comparatively free from any such vicissitudes. (Again, recent science has somewhat challenged this, and indicated that there can be factors affecting male fertility previously unaccounted for, and thus the old idea of the male's reproductive potential being "always on" may not be as straightforward as had been assumed. But here, too, even if there is more to the story here, the general contrast still holds, that the male has a wider window.) All this having been observed, I needn't really even note what is much more remarked and really much more obvious regarding everything that actually stems from reproduction, from the length of pregnancy, the changes to the female body, breastfeeding, and so forth. If we see imbalance in the area of reproductive potential, the same holds&nbsp;<em>a fortiori</em>&nbsp;in the area of the actual reproductive process. About the compensations for the observed inequalities&mdash;the glories of motherhood and the miracle of childbearing&mdash;I will leave it to others more qualified than I to speak.&nbsp;<br /></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The main point here is that speaking of "equality" in this realm can only hold true in a very conditional and modified sense of the word. If aliens really did abduct humans and coldly investigate these matters the way they are always shown to be doing on TV, they'd think that there are striking differences between the sexes as vast as the difference in size between a single egg and a single sperm. They'd also probably have the general impression that, biologically speaking&mdash;that is, prescinding from matters of actual mating, let alone culture&mdash;the female is the controlling side in reproduction. In any case, they wouldn't come away from their experiments with an awed sense of the "equality" of it all.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The reason I lay all this out is two-fold, but nevertheless quite simple. The first point is that pro-lifers need to avoid a knee-jerk, facile responses about the differences in reproductive burden just as much as they need to avoid such answers in the question of "whose body," as discussed above. The second point, critically, is that these observations help us to see a fundamental flaw in the logic, or rather sentiments, coming out of the sexual revolution, that really there is an attempt at trying to sqaure a circle. Because despite all we've seen about the plain biological facts of inequality that attend here, the goal of the sexual revolutionaries has always been directed toward some sort of equality. And the upshot is that the sought equality must always involve denying the unique potentials of women and trying to throw them over in favor of something that looks more like the potentials of men. Female reproduction is treated like a disease, from fertility to childbirth. I don't need to go deeply into observing all the ways this is true. We can simply think of the expectations and norms of modern career work. The rules are all very much male-centric, and always have been. And the cost of entry for women, while it might have been a changing of the rules, really in the actual event ended up being a demand for the changing of the woman. Witness the parable-in-action of the corporations scurrying to promise women they'll fly them to another state to get an abortion, when they won't be compelled to promise them anything like a generous pregnancy and maternity leave. As much as feminists shout that pro-lifers with their restrictive laws are reenforcing the "patriarchy," the fact is that there is no mechanism in the modern world more pointedly patriarchal than the abortion industry.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where Charity and Love Do Not Prevail]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/where-charity-and-love-do-not-prevail]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/where-charity-and-love-do-not-prevail#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2022 15:15:12 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Pro Life for a New Era]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/where-charity-and-love-do-not-prevail</guid><description><![CDATA[Scrolling thru Twitter, I came across the following exchange between a woman who had had an abortion after rape, and another who was conceived in rape...This is not wisdom or compassion, but a dark and sad nihilism born out of injury.​My heart aches for both these individuals. But they both reminds us that abortion culture doesn't help women who are victims, it goes on and victimizes them more.Concretely, in the first case, I don't know the circumstances of the woman's grandmother. Maybe she h [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Scrolling thru Twitter, I came across the following <a href="https://twitter.com/rapeconception/status/1540528462787649536?t=RWJOhHkrHZv3LWYelbqhLg&amp;s=19" target="_blank">exchange</a> between a woman who had had an abortion after rape, and another who was conceived in rape...</div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.joegrabowski.com/uploads/5/9/2/6/5926618/screenshot-20220625-102147-twitter_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This is not wisdom or compassion, but a dark and sad nihilism born out of injury.</span></span><br><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><br>&#8203;My heart aches for both these individuals. But they both reminds us that abortion culture doesn't help women who are victims, it goes on and victimizes them more.</span></span></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Concretely, in the first case, I don't know the circumstances of the woman's grandmother. Maybe she herself was in some sort of abusive relationship and had limited options. These sorts of things we cannot know from the narrative presented. What is clear from that narrative is that the woman's son violated her granddaughter, and then not only was that son sheltered from prosecution but the grandmother also facilitated the "cleaning up" of his crime. Abortion providers participate in this sort of thing more often than we think, judging by the amount of testimony floating around out there. All of the shouting about women being "forced to carry their rapist's child" misses the fact that it is not infrequently the rapist himself who will force the woman to get an abortion in order to cover up his abuse. And all the lobbying Planned Parenthood and others did over the years to try to get rid of parental notification or consent for abortion was a mechanism that made this kind of thing easier for rapists to get away with.</span></span><br><br><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Moving to the second tweet, we see another consequence of this shifting of the moral burden and blame of the crime to its victims rather than its perpetrators. If you look closely at the profile image of the person who posted the second tweet, it says, "I was a walking crime scene." We can set aside for the moment the ethics and morality of abortion itself entirely for a moment, and consider one jarring fact. A movement that is supposed to be, or claims to be, about empowerment and the dignity of women has left this woman feeling that it would have been better if she were never born, and that she is "a walking crime scene." Just let that settle in for a moment.</span></span><br><br><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Again, m</span></span>y heart aches for these two women, really and genuinely. They have been victims of horrible crimes, and more than one in both cases. The child conceived in rape is a victim, even one who manages to be born, because the trauma of the way in which he or she came into being does transfer its weight to him or her inevitably. But no more than we should ever think it right or loving to say to the first victim that it were better if she'd been killed, we should never allow that to be the message that these secondary victims hear. And yet, it is. Loud and clear.<span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"></span></span><br><br><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">That is why I must also call to mind all those who have been hearing these things shouted by pro-abortion (I'm glad they agree now that we can call them this) activists for decades, but in particular over the past sever weeks and even more loudly on just the last 24 hours. Men and women and children conceived in rape, or born with a disability or deformity, or who for any other reason are only here because they were saved by the laws pro-life advocates fought so hard to establish, have had to face this message everywhere they turn from those supposed ambassdors for "dignity and empowerment" marching around City Halls all over the country this morning: you're a burden, you're a mistake, you're unwanted, you're unloved&hellip; you're better off dead. I don't think one need look much further than that to see on what side of this debate true compassion and love lie.</span></span></div><div><div id="728090115640950098" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">CNN commentator uses her disabled brother &amp; step granddaughter who has Down syndrome as examples of why we need abortion.<br><br>The ugly cruelty. The utterly bald ageism and ableism. The unfettered call for violence against the unborn disabled. <a href="https://t.co/qo3jdfkK8b">pic.twitter.com/qo3jdfkK8b</a></p>&mdash; Lila Rose (@LilaGraceRose) <a href="https://twitter.com/LilaGraceRose/status/1540405446967562240?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 24, 2022</a></blockquote></div></div><div class="paragraph">Criminals should be punished. Their victims should be met with all the compassion and practical support we as a society can muster. But we should never, out of mistaken compassion, compound the injury of a crime by visiting more outrages upon the victims and the innocents who are caught up in it.&nbsp;<br><br>No person is a "walking crime scene." No person should be made to feel that it would be better if he or she were never born. And when any movement <em>does</em> make them feel this way, I think we should take a harder look at whether that movement is really all it claims to be.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Greatest and Yet Least]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2022 12:37:19 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least</guid><description><![CDATA[Geertgen tot Sint Jans: John the Baptist in the Wilderness; Encyclopædia Britannica.Today (by the Roman Martyrology)* is the Feast of the Nativity of Saint John the Baptist.It has also been named as another opinions release day by the Supreme Court this week.I see a lot of people who seem convinced that today is the day we'll see Dobbs handed down. The question is whence these speculations arise? On the one hand, it could simply be guessing, in which case the person is, after all, playing fairl [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div id="918426345415119204" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><a name="top" id="top"></a></div></div><span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.joegrabowski.com/uploads/5/9/2/6/5926618/published/john-the-baptist-oil-panel-wilderness-geertgen.webp?1656074495" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 20px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Geertgen tot Sint Jans: John the Baptist in the Wilderness; <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/Saint-John-the-Baptist#/media/1/305173/10980">Encyclop&aelig;dia Britannica</a>.</span></span><div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Today (by the Roman Martyrology)<a href="https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least#note" target="_blank">*</a> is the Feast of the Nativity of Saint John the Baptist.<br><br>It has also been named as another opinions release day by the Supreme Court this week.<br><br>I see a lot of people who seem convinced that today is the day we'll see <em>Dobbs</em> handed down. The question is whence these speculations arise? On the one hand, it could simply be guessing, in which case the person is, after all, playing fairly decent odds. For each opinion day that arrives with Dobbs not having been released, the odds of its release upon that day become statistically more likely. Poor at math as am I, yet even I can figure those numbers. On the other hand, some of the folks I see speculating might have even better reasons, because they are, some of them, a certain sort of people. That is, people who might know someone who knows someone who knows a clerk with whom yet another someone dined last night, and who at one point in the meal looked up over his glass of wine, raised his eyebrows, and heavily cleared his throat and either said no more or, more riskily, mentioned something vague about parking on the Hill. I mean, that sort of thing and this sort of person each have their precedents.<br><br>Then again, just because no release days have yet been scheduled for next week doesn't mean they can't be added ad hoc. That, too, has precedent. So all we can really do is wait and watch and see what we will see.<br><br>But I had mentioned Saint John the Baptist...</div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph">See, there are other characters to this story, beyond the judges and the clerks and the lawyers and the pundits and the activists and the prayer warriors and the protesters. There are the tens of millions lost to the travesty of abortion, voices never heard in this world but which I am convinced are heard before the One who sits upon his throne on high. There are others with them, myriads of myriads uncounted; there are the angels of these little ones, but also so many brothers and sisters who maybe like them never even began the running of the course of earthly life, or who ran it to varying lengths but ran it well. There is, singular and shining amongst all these, that peerless and wonderful Woman, the pinacle of creation, from whose womb we all have life abundant, because she bore Him who saves us. And very close to her in radiance and splendor, there he stands, St. John the Precursor, the Forerunner, the voice that one cried out in the wilderness but continues to cry out in every spiritual wilderness today, the same messages: repent, make straight the way of the Lord, and behold the Lamb of God.<br><br>I think this John, greatest of the prophets, has a special connection with all those little ones lost to abortion, and this connection is underscored by today's Feast. The Church only commemorates three Nativities among all the Saints. And ancient tradition holds that the reason for this is that there are three alone who have been born into this world already sanctified and washed clean of the stain of Original Sin: Christ Himself, whom no stain of sin could ever touch; Mary, who was preserved from the moment of her conception from this fate; and John, who at the moment of his closeness to the Mother of God and in hearing her word, was granted the gift of the Holy Spirit, and leapt in praise within Elizabeth's womb just as David danced before the Ark. His witnessing to the Messiah began even before birth; and in that same act he also became a witness to a truth our age has tried to ignore, that the babe unborn is a child known and loved already by God. John also bears this closeness to those brothers and sisters whose lives never even saw the light of this world: he was at once the greatest, and yet lesser than the least. His whole life and mission and purpose was untimely and yet, in God's providential plan, just for the right time. Like Moses before him, he died before seeing the fulfillment of what God had called him to do; just like all those children who never got to experience all that they might have in this life, and yet who we can firmly hope have been given recompense in the greater life to come.<br><br>So, it would indeed be fitting, in a cosmic and&nbsp;<em>kaorotic&nbsp;</em>way, if today be the day that all those prayers are answered, those prayers which those little ones have been offering unceasingly along with our more meager ones here below.<br><br>But, then again, and by the same token, maybe not. That is to say, God's ways are not our ways, and we can always afford to be reminded of this. And there would be an equal fittingness to God allowing us to wait just a little while longer, and be tested to hope and pray. John once again provides the model. He ended up in prison. Some Fathers of the Church maintained that when he sent his disciples to Jesus to ask whether he was the one foretold, it was for the benefit of those disciples and not John himself. But others have speculated, and I find myself in sympathy with this view, that maybe it was just as much for his own sake that John proffered the question. He'd spent his whole life laboring to prepare the moment. He'd seen and acknowledged Jesus. But it would only have been natural for him to have imagined and hoped for a different end for himself. Here he was, who had been called from the beginning, who had labored so hard and lived a life of such hard asceticism and witness, sparring with the Scribes and Pharisees and even the King, rotting in a jail cell, while the Messiah about whom he knew more than anyone else alive save one was out there hanging about with a bunch of ignorant fisherman and tax collectors and worse types yet. He, greatest born of woman, and yet now reduced to less than the least.<br><br>In his prayers from that cell, I can well imagine which particular psalms and lamentations he may have recalled most frequently, asking God essentially, "Seriously? What gives? How long, O Lord... how much longer?" I don't have trouble imagining that he sought consolation for himself in that moment, as well as for his disciples whom he surely loved; that he wanted a word from the Lord to remind him along with them, even though he could little understand the reason of it all, what Graham Greene called "the terrible strangeness of the mercy of God." He might even have struggled with a sort of jealousy of that beloved disciple of Jesus who maybe shared his name, that would be able to lie his head on our Lord's breast, while his own head was destined for a plate at the whim of a bratty child. And yet maybe, in God&rsquo;s Providential plan, it was partly for this: that he would have that special closeness with those others whose earthly destiny seems so hard to fathom, who were cut short before taking a single breath, who might well ask God, &ldquo;Why? How could this be even allowed in your will? How was I brought into being for&nbsp;<em>this</em>?&rdquo;<br><br>Anyhow, whatever comes of today, there is every good reason to draw close to Saint John the Baptist and pray with him and in the spirit that motivated him: hope and anticipation, sorrow and lamentation, gazing toward Christ who alone can make sense of it all.<br><br>Mighty Forerunner, Voice of the Wilderness, Foil to the Wise and Mighty, Greatest and yet Least: Pray for us!</div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div><div id="727778608710825782" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><a name="note" id="note"></a></div></div><div class="paragraph"><font size="2"><a href="https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least#top" target="_blank">*</a>This year (2022), today is actually the Solemnity of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the Baptist's Nativity having been moved to yesterday, but I'm taking my cue from the&nbsp;<strong>date&nbsp;</strong>of the feast since this&nbsp;<em>could&nbsp;</em>end up being the anniversaried date of the overturn of <em>Roe</em> and <em>Casey</em>. (<a href="https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/the-greatest-and-yet-least#top" target="_blank">back</a>)</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Responding to a Claim: Women Who Miscarry Will be Targeted if Roe Goes?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/responding-to-a-claim-women-who-miscarry-will-be-targeted-if-roe-goes]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/responding-to-a-claim-women-who-miscarry-will-be-targeted-if-roe-goes#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2022 12:29:28 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Pro Life for a New Era]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/responding-to-a-claim-women-who-miscarry-will-be-targeted-if-roe-goes</guid><description><![CDATA[I was tagged in a post on Facebook to which I've decided to respond, though in my own way and place. I don't really feel like subjecting myself to the name-calling and verbal abuse the original poster and his or her fans are known for. So instead I will share here the original post, the comment in which I was tagged, and my response.&#8203;First of all, here is the original claim:  10-20% of pregnancies spontaneously miscarry. Every single woman who suffers that will be liable for a possible cha [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">I was tagged in a post on Facebook to which I've decided to respond, though in my own way and place. I don't really feel like subjecting myself to the name-calling and verbal abuse the original poster and his or her fans are known for. So instead I will share here the original post, the comment in which I was tagged, and my response.<br /><br />&#8203;First of all, here is the original claim:</div>  <blockquote><span>10-20% of pregnancies spontaneously miscarry. Every single woman who suffers that will be liable for a possible charge of 'negligent homicide' and have to prove her innocence if the MAGA nuts get their way. This is what happens when you have one monomaniac goal and absolutely no plan for what happens after that.</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Under this, I was tagged, with the simple statment,&nbsp;<br /></div>  <blockquote><span>Joe Grabowski, this sort of thing is happening.</span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph">So, let's take a closer look, shall we?</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Before getting into it, I will say up front that I'm prepared to accept the underlying premise about the rate of miscarriage. I have actually heard higher figures in some places. Let us pass over that without argument. <br /><br />Turning then to the controversial stuff, we need to distinguish that there are technically two different claims. The original is about something that <em>will</em> be happening, whereas the comment claims that it&nbsp;<em>is</em> happening. I am goign to focus primarily on the <em>second </em>claim, not only as the more immediate, but also because I think my answer there will suffice in addressing the primary one.<br /><br />Now, if there really is evidence that this sort of thing is going on with frequency and in a marked number of cases, I can think of some people who would love to see the data. I, for one, for my own reasons, which I'll get to. But there are others, for their own reasons, who would probably pay good money for this information. I'm thinking, of course, of the very well funded pro-abortion lobby, groups like Planned Parenthood and NARAL. These groups have hosts of legal advisors, researchers, interns, as well as very good relationships with Congress critters and their staffers, as well as reporters and media types. Needless to say, this is the kind of data about which they'd be able to make great use in arguing in favor of the legal status quo under <em>Roe </em>and <em>Casey</em>. They'd be wrong&mdash;again, something I'll get to&mdash;but they'd definitely not let something sensational like this go to waste. <br /><br />But, see, the odd thing is, I follow those groups and their talking points pretty closely. And though I can't claim that I read every single amicus brief on the pro-choice side in the Dobbs case, I reviewed a good number of them. The thing is that this simply isn't one of their talking points or arguments&mdash;or, if it is, it is so low down in the pecking order, possibly because it is based on so rare a frequency of incidence, that it hasn't achieved any real saturation in the discourse around the issue of abortion. <br /><br />So, that leaves me wondering, is this really the remarkable threat it is supposed to be? Or is this a bit of rhetorical hyperbole, some Margaret Atwood fan fiction intended to gin up fear and worry without a great foundation in fact? I make no bones about saying I think Planned Parenthood, NARAL and others who support broad, lax abortion allowances are wicked and mendacious. But I've never claimed that they're simply stupid. And missing a convenient talking point like this would be stupid. Even if it had a pretty thin basis in fact, given their willingness to lie, I'd imagine they'd run with it. But they don't. That, to me, is somewhat telling.<br /><br />However, in the interest of fairness, I could conjecture an alternative reason why they might simply forgo use of such an argument even if it were available to them. It would be, perhaps, an outsized cost to them in view of the potential gain. Because talking about spontaneous abortion or miscarriage runs the risk of reminding people of what we're really talking about in this debate, namely unborn human life. After all, women don't tearfully call up friends and family to ask for sympathy and support for their loss of a clump of cells. No, they say they've lost their baby; and it <em><strong>is</strong></em> a tragedy, worthy of sympathy. And that's a hard thing to allow into a conversation when your aim is to show why women should be allowed to hire a doctor to kill a baby at the same age under different circumstances.<br /><br />So, let's allow at least for the sake of argument that this actually <em>is</em>&nbsp;something that is happening, and liable to happen more often&mdash;anyway, proving a negative is always hard. I said above that I would be interested to know about this happening for my own reasons, and that what Planned Parenthood and their ilk might do with data showing this to be happening would still be wrong. So, we can proceed onto that discussion regardless, and make the full allowance of the benefit of doubt. We needn't even quibble over frequency, either, though it is worth noting that I'd doubt very much whether the number of women being legally compelled to justify their spontaneous miscarriages even begins to approach the number of elective abortions done each day. For parity, we'd need to reach the full dire situation of the original claim above, and all 10-20% result in this, since it seems according to the CDC that somewhere between 10-20% of pregnancies are terminated in legal induced abortions. But all this is a digression; as I said, we don't need to quibble over frequency. Let's just suppose the truth of what has been presented, and go from there.<br /><br />The simple and obvious answer here is:<em> "That's bad, let's try to stop that from happening, either now or in the future."</em> This is why I'd be interested to see some data, because data can help in figuring out how to more finely tune and hone laws to target more precisely the negative outcomes they seek to inhibit. Now, of course, we need to allow that the law is always an imperfect instrument, and a blunt one. But we don't often just throw away good laws based on their minor imperfections. (If you want to geek out on this a bit, check out Thomas Aquinas on the mutability of human law in <em><a href="https://www.newadvent.org/summa/2097.htm" target="_blank">ST Ia-IIae, Q. 97 passim</a></em>.) <br /><br />Consider, for example, gun control legislation. It may be the case that, in a place with more strict gun restrictions and higher goals of enforcement for police that it will happen more frequently that a law-abiding citizen, legally within his rights to carry a weapon, will be subjected to vexatious detainment and questioning to establish his right to possess his firearm, and indeed that this burden will fall disproportionately upon members of minority populations. But I don't think the supporters of the gun control laws would say that, therefore, the laws need to be thrown out. We may need to work to reform them and refine them, of course. But they'd probably argue that the benefit outweighs the cost, because the goal is to save lives by getting illegal firearms out of their communities. How many lives should be left unsaved by throwing out the imperfect statute?<br /><br />Before anyone throws a fit, I realize the above analogy is of far lesser weight than the instant considerations. But that's true on both sides of the question: that of the privacy and emotional burden concerns on the one hand, and of the cost to human life and innocence on the other. But where the analogy works is at the level of principles and fundamentals. Imperfect implementation and inadequate refinement are not just cause for the wholesale dismantling of a fundamentally just legal dispensation. Where failures in a system propagate, the reasonable thing to do is look for reasons amongst the data as to what risk factors and commonalities cause these failures and plug in fixes, in the same way that it is more reasonable more often to patch imperfect masonry rather than knock down the whole edifice and rebuild it anew from scratch. That&rsquo;s the kind of legal process I&rsquo;m willing to work with anyone of good will in order to achieve.<br /><br />I repeat: any system is going to be imperfect. But, well, while we're on that observation, let's get something else clear: it would be <em>gross </em>understatement indeed to say, for instance, that the status quo of <em>Roe </em>and <em>Casey </em>has its own glaring imperfections. I mean, even leaving aside the mountain of dead children this legal establishment has left in its wake, what about all of the cases of pimps or abusers or other malefactors who coerce women to have abortions against their will? If the logic above followed, wouldn&rsquo;t people have been calling for the overturn of <em>Roe </em>and <em>Casey </em>based on these exceptional cases as well? Yet, they haven&rsquo;t; and here is where I&rsquo;ll actually extend something of an olive branch and say that they wouldn&rsquo;t have necessarily been wrong on that score. Because a law may be fundamentally sound even when it allows for exceptional aberrations and gross injustices. <br /><br />The question needs, then, always to go to the <em>fundamentals&nbsp;</em>of the thing. And it is on <em>that </em>ground of fundamental justice and the basic principles of the dignity and inviolability of human life that <em>Roe </em>and <em>Casey </em>went astray, and why therefore they need to go. Exceptions and lacunae under the new established legal order will exist, unfortunately. I, for one, would like to be able to spend my energy fixing those problems and filling in the gaps. But whether I will be able to do so or not will be more a question of whether I&rsquo;m allowed to do so, however. For I fear that instead I&rsquo;ll still need to be spending my breath arguing against people calling for the wholesale allowance of the murder of innocent children. Which makes me think that <em>maybe </em>those people against whom I&rsquo;ll need to argue aren&rsquo;t as concerned about those exceptional injustices as they might pretend to be.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Belying the Underyling "Root Causes"]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/belying-the-underyling-root-causes]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/belying-the-underyling-root-causes#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Pro Life for a New Era]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/belying-the-underyling-root-causes</guid><description><![CDATA[I recently remarked on how people are talking about the other privacy rights that seem to depend upon Roe being at stake in this debate, but how they don't seem to be doing anything about them that would be pragmatic if this really were their concern. In short, I said that these concerns, when posed in conversations about&nbsp;Roe,&nbsp;seem to me to be a red herring. Well, I have a similar observation to make about another line of argumentation that is maybe less a red herring than a straw man, [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(5, 5, 5)">I <a href="https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/throwing-back-a-red-herring" target="_blank">recently remarked</a> on how people are talking about the other privacy rights that seem to depend upon <em>Roe </em>being at stake in this debate, but how they don't seem to be doing anything about them that would be pragmatic if this really were their concern. In short, I said that these concerns, when posed in conversations about&nbsp;<em>Roe</em>,&nbsp;seem to me to be a red herring. Well, I have a similar observation to make about another line of argumentation that is maybe less a red herring than a straw man, but is in any case another distraction from the real issue.</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">You see, another thing that gets talked about a lot in debates about abortion is the need to fight the root causes of abortion rather than the thing itself.<br /><br />Now, I've already <a href="https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/pro-life-or-just-pro-birth" target="_blank">pointed out elsewhere</a> how I think this is fallacious and why: how the logic there falls apart when you realize that birth is kind of an irrelevant and arbitrary benchmark for such a debate. If those arguments advance anywhere, they advance too far. They set a bar of justice that, if we were consistent and really followed the logic to its terminus, ought to apply in cases <em>outside </em>the womb as well as inside. (This arbitrary line drawing, incidentally, is one of the elements that ultimately should, for reasonable arbiters, doom both <em>Roe </em>and <em>Casey </em>as very bad and illogical pieces of jurisprudence. Because if the grounds for the supposed right are really granted as true, while on the other hand the denial of a legitimate overriding countervailing interest is made so strongly, then turning around an imposing standards like viability or an undue burden test is too obviously arbitrary and capricious. The Court tried to have it all its own way, have its cake and eat it too, but it doesn't work. It's like if a museum docent, after giving a 20 minute talk on why such and such manuscript is so unique and precious and important, were to fold the thing into a paper airplane and throw it across the room to show how nicely the material it is made of can fly. The conclusion undermines the premises.)<br /><br />But I've digressed. I was saying, I'm hearing a lot about how we need to focus more on the underlying and root causes of abortion, and more specifically how a lot of these causes lie at the feet of one political party as its fault and responsibility. But then I'm seeing something else alongside this. I'm seeing people talking about how, if this decision comes down, they will <a href="https://technical.ly/company-culture/tech-hubs-roe-wade-employers/" target="_blank">need to move to another State</a>. Whole companies are suggesting they may do so.<br /><br />But what's odd about all that, to me, is the where and wherefore of it all. People, and companies, aren't planning on moving to another State because the newly chosen State has better maternal healthcare, or better schools, or more robust social programs for single parents. <strong>They're planning to move because, well, abortion.</strong> And there's something else besides. The States to which they seem to be planning to move are States that presumably are going to be keeping abortion allowances in place, and yet they're the very same States that supposedly ought to be where abortion is least necessary. They are many of the States that even now, under the current disposition of the law, have <strong><a href="https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/slideshows/states-with-the-highest-abortion-rates" target="_blank">the highest abortion rates</a></strong>&mdash;rates, mind you, not raw numbers, but ratios. States like New York, California, Maryland, for example. True, some of the States on the list of highest abortion rates are those that have had Republican control for a while, like Florida. But a higher percentage of the States with the top ten highest abortion rates in the country are those that have been controlled by Democrats.</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.joegrabowski.com/uploads/5/9/2/6/5926618/abortion-rate_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Via the Guttmacher Data Center. Source: Jones RK, Witwer E, Jerman J, Abortion Incidence and Service Availability in the United States, 2017, New York: Guttmacher Institute, 2019 https://www.guttmacher.org/report/abortion-incidence-service-availability-us-2017</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">Now, I am neither a Democrat nor a Republican. But I'm making this observation because I find it curious. See, we should expect, given the arguments put forth about who has the better solutions for fixing the underlying causes of abortion, that Florida would be on that list. But we shouldn't expect, if the hypothesis had predictive power, those other States to be there, i.e. California, New York, Maryland, Connecticut, Delaware&mdash;or, well, we may as well mention the District of Columbia, which is atop the list. It is, as I say, curious. The logic of the arguments I've seen runs thus: since I care about abortion, and want to see it reduced, I should stop all this lollygagging with trying to ban abortion and supporting policies that limit it, and instead fight for those politicians who want a more permissive abortion regime but support the sorts of policies that make abortion less necessary and common in spite of this. The logic has never fully made sense to me, even in the abstract. But it is even less compelling in the concrete, when I look at the actual track record and numbers of those States that simultaneously uphold the most permissive abortion regimes alongside the most robust social safety nets and services. I am not surprised to see that they have higher abortion rates in actual fact; I am not surprised that I am not surprised. What does surprise me is that those who advance this argument are not surprised, and that they continue to harry me with that argument.<br /><br />Finally, though, anticipating some pushback, I want to make something perfectly clear, which should be clear enough already but nonetheless bears emphasizing. None of what I have said here can in fairness be construed, and therefore should not be construed, as an argument one way or another about the merits of social safety nets or social welfare programs. My observations here do not approach that issue. Indeed, I'll allow for the sake of argument that if those States on that list had fewer such programs, then their rates of abortions would be even higher. It's at least plausible. The observed evidence doesn't speak to that, one way or the other. <br /><br />&#8203;That would, I dare say, be an interesting discussion; but it would be a separate discussion. What I&rsquo;m interested in discussing at present, though, is this: that, if I take them at their word, a lot of people seem to be anticipating needing to move to a different State not because of all the benefits that State has for making the bearing of a child more feasible, but because that State will maintain as feasible the recourse of terminating the bearing of a child; and that they therefore anticipate potential making use of that recourse, regardless of how many programs that State has that, some people insist, are the key to making that recourse unnecessary.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Pro-Life, or Just "Pro-Birth"?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/pro-life-or-just-pro-birth]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/pro-life-or-just-pro-birth#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2022 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Pro Life for a New Era]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.joegrabowski.com/blog/pro-life-or-just-pro-birth</guid><description><![CDATA[ &#8203;I saw this rather tiresome meme quoting Sister Joan Chittister. The quotation reads, "I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. That's not pro-life. That's pro-birth."Now, I have just about had it with this very common and very fallacious argument, and so I'm going to respond at length, and hopefully show why it is not only a tedious distraction, but also employs question-begging l [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:309px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.joegrabowski.com/uploads/5/9/2/6/5926618/editor/sr-joan.jpg?1652357413" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 20px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">&#8203;I saw this rather tiresome meme quoting Sister Joan Chittister. The quotation reads, <em>"I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. That's not pro-life. That's pro-birth."</em><br /><br />Now, I have just about had it with this very common and very fallacious argument, and so I'm going to respond at length, and hopefully show why it is not only a tedious distraction, but also employs question-begging logic with regard to what "birth" means (or doesn't mean) in this whole discussion...</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">First of all, let's respond to the thing at face value, and consider the frankly stunning phrase, "all you want is a child born," and simply pause there. Because before we move on to the pathos-laden sequel, we need really to consider what's entailed in this first statement. "All you want is a child born,"&mdash;as opposed to what? "Not born," certainly, is the implied opposite. That is to say, a child dead&mdash;murdered, in fact. See, normally when dealing with questions of morality and ethics, it is quite natural and intuitive to tackle the large fundamental questions first and then proceed on to the fineries and perhaps more precious, nuanced points. We need to bear this in mind as the crux and lynchpin of the argument. Now, then, we can proceed on and consider the counterarguments in context.<br /><br />I'll do so by way of metaphorical examples. If, for instance, you were to travel to, say, Pakistan or Afghanistan, and met someone picketing with a placard protesting against women being beaten or killed by their husbands with impunity, a good first instinct would be to say, "Right on, friend." It would, on the other hand, be somewhat strange and frankly perverse, to march up to that other person and launch into a tirade of whataboutism, e.g., "Well, what about women's education? What about women being allowed to drive? Or to vote? Or [so on and so forth]? You're not really pro-woman, you're just against women being beaten and murdered!" Or, say, it were the antebellum United States, and you were to accost an Abolitionist about what his or her plans were to ensure freed slaves equal opportunities of housing, employment, and education, or to demand as a prerequisite to the Emancipation Proclamation first a full and sweeping establishment of equal civil rights writ large. That Abolitionist likely wouldn't see you as an ally. He or she might even suspect that you were pro-slavery. At the very least, he or she would see you as missing the more urgent and pressing point in the matter. You would be, as the phrase goes, "majoring in the minors," and dismissed as an obstructionist nuisance.<br /><br />Note, please, that both of my hypotheticals here are not even very strong as metaphors, though, but also why. Because in both of the above cases, the nuisance arguments don't necessarily imply their opposites, that women should go on being beaten and murdered in the one case, or that people should go on being enslaved in the other. One could imagine, rather, both of these arguments being made in good faith, albeit misguidedly. But in the antecedent to which the metaphors apply, this is not the case. Here, the upshot really is the stark opposite. The "therefore" that follows the counter-examples in the primary argument is: "Because of all these other considerations, *therefore* we must uphold a robust legal right for a child to be murdered before it is born." And here we can divert to considering the extension of this logic. Because I don't see how birth is a necessarily relevant fact in the matter at all. The argument, after all, is predicated upon the conditions facing born children, i.e. that some of them lack feeding, lack education, lack housing. These are granted in the premises to be things that *born* children suffer. So, why does it not follow that, if we cannot solve this for a three-year-old that is already born, then the same brutal consequence of our failure holds? If society won't help a mother feed, educate, or house her three-year-old daughter, then why shouldn't we make it legal for the mother to drown that child in her wading pool? If legal abortion really is the necessary relief to these issues, then abortion is obviously insufficient on its own, because so many would-be needy kids slip through the cracks of that laudatory solution and manage to be born in spite of society's incapacities. So we need to extend legal child murder beyond the womb to cover all the cases where pro-birthers have failed to be "truly pro-life," and allow that all unfed, unschooled, homeless kids be allowed to be killed. Limiting this merciful relief only to that class of kids that are not yet born seems prejudicial and cruel. It's quite unfair to the born kids not to allow them to benefit from this act of charity, too.<br /><br />Before we get over excited with our final solution, however, we should stop and interrogate the premises to see if they even hold. If we look more deeply at the thing, we actually find that&mdash;alas for the program of merciful child killing&mdash;pro-lifers are not actually the abysmal failures they're supposed to be. The last time I myself had an opportunity to consort in-person with a bunch of these pro-birthers, for instance, the program for the day belied the stereotype that Sister deploys. We did gather first to pray and witness outside an abortion clinic. Many of those in attendance were families, some of whom had adopted kids who were rescued from the fate of abortion, including some special needs kids. These kids, lucky to have been born, had the fortune after being born to be fed, educated, and housed by the very same people who had endeavored to ensure their births. Not only that, but after our prayer vigil the whole lot of us then went out into the City where, while meeting with people and offering to pray with and for them, we also provided homeless people with meals and wellness kits including things like clean socks and dental care products and the like. Now, perhaps Sister has never seen this sort of thing going on, but I personally find this rather remarkable, because in all my years of experience with the pro-life movement, I have found this kind of charitable outreach to be the norm rather than the exception.<br /><br />Actually, though, there is a line that has been elided from the quotation from Sister Joan that helps to shed light on the matter. Before the concluding remark that, "That's not pro-life. That's pro-birth," Sister had said, in the full statement, "And why would I think that you don't [want the aforementioned things]? Because you don't want any tax money to go there." So, actually, Sister might know that this sort of private charitable activity goes on, but what she's really worried about is government programs sufficiently provided for to do these things. Here, I'm prepared to grant Sister a bit of grace. I think maybe we can come up with more public funding to do the sorts of programs she has in mind. The devil is in the details, however. Speaking personally, for example, I'd propose that one place we should take this public funding from first of all would be from taxpayer funds that subsidize groups that already have an income stream from abortion, like Planned Parenthood. I&rsquo;d suggest, too, that if we all put our heads together and tried to be a bit clever about it, a careful look at current allocations for the funding of public education might reveal ways to find resources to educate more born children. Perhaps not every kid would be able to have a laptop in the classroom. We&rsquo;d need to make the tough decision of whether it&rsquo;s more important for young Johnny to be able to look at TikTok during math class than for younger Johnny to have been pulled apart with forceps and vacuumed out of his mothers womb and thrown into an incinerator, but I think just maybe this is a calculus tha real good-faith actors could reach consensus on if they tried hard enough.<br />&#8203;<br />At the end of the day, though, as interesting as these later considerations are, we need to get back to the fundamental and most basic facts. Even if we granted that Sister&rsquo;s criticism were true and that those who are &lsquo;pro-birth&rsquo; aren&rsquo;t *really* pro-life, we need to turn the consideration around and ask about the implicit opposite. Are those who are *anti* birth any *more* pro-life? Haven&rsquo;t &lsquo;pro-birthers&rsquo; at least achieved the first and crucial part of being pro-life, the sine qua non, &ldquo;if all [they] want is a child born&rdquo;? It seems to me that they have, because it&rsquo;s very hard to feed, educate, or house dead kids. And it seems to me that anyone who wants to moralize about the feeding, education, or housing of children loses somewhat his or her credibility if countenancing the killing of children at the outset. There is always more we can do. But, hey, call me crazy: if it simply comes to down to comparing the kids the pro-lifers I know have saved from abortion and gone on to provide for with the kids Sister Joan and her ilk have killed under the full support of the law, I am inclined to think the former set are, on balance, better off.</div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>